My Teenager Took an Overdose: How Do I Handle it?

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My Teenager Took an Overdose: How Do I Handle it?
M.F asks
My 15 year old daughter took an overdose on Wednesday - there were no warning signs at all, she is now refusing to speak to me and her dad and won't come home.

She is safe at her grandparents for now but can't stay there forever. How do I handle this - how do we go forward?

Finding out your teenager has taken an overdose is deeply distressing. You may feel shocked, frightened, or unsure what to do next. Whatever the circumstances, there are practical steps you can take to support your child and get the right help in place.

Seek medical advice straight away

If your teenager has taken an overdose and has not already received medical attention, call 999 if there is any immediate risk to life. If the situation is less urgent but still concerning, contact NHS 111 or a doctor as soon as possible. Even if the overdose seems minor or your child appears fine, some substances, particularly paracetamol, can cause serious harm that only becomes apparent hours or days later.

If your teenager was treated at A&E or admitted to hospital, medical staff may have started the process of assessment and follow up care. However, a referral to Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS) is not automatic. You may need to ask about this directly or follow up with your GP to ensure it happens.

If no referral has been made, speak to your GP. They can assess your teenager and make an appropriate referral if needed. You can attend the appointment with your child, or go alone if they refuse to come. The GP will still be able to offer guidance and note what has happened in their medical records.

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Understand what help is available

An overdose often signals underlying distress. This might relate to depression, anxiety, difficulties at school, problems with relationships, bullying, trauma, or pressure they have not spoken about. Your teenager may not be able to explain why they did it, and that is not unusual.

CAMHS provides mental health support for young people up to the age of 18. Waiting times vary depending on your area. In the meantime, charities such as Young Minds, Papyrus, and Childline offer support for teenagers and parents. The Samaritans are available around the clock on 116 123.

If a GP believes your teenager may benefit from medication, such as antidepressants, this will usually be discussed carefully and monitored closely. Treatment plans vary significantly depending on individual circumstances, and talking therapies are often considered first or alongside medication.

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Talk to your teenager

Your instinct may be to ask questions or stay more attentive to their activities. This is understandable, but try to give them space to talk when they are ready.

Let them know you are there without pressuring them to explain themselves. Avoid expressing anger or frustration, even if that is what you feel. A calm, steady presence can make it easier for them to open up over time.

It can help to agree on small, practical things. How will they let you know if they are struggling? Who else do they feel comfortable talking to? Some teenagers find it easier to speak to someone outside the family, such as a school counsellor or youth worker.

Look after yourself as well

Supporting a teenager through something like this takes a toll. You do not need to manage everything alone.

Speaking to your own GP can be useful, both for your mental health and to get advice on supporting your child. Organisations such as Family Lives and Young Minds also offer guidance for parents. Talking to someone you trust, whether a friend, family member, or counsellor, can help you process what has happened.

Recovery takes time and setbacks can happen. With the right support, many teenagers do go on to manage their mental health and move forward.

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idkkk 08/12/2020 at 7:29 pm
well as a teenager who has overdosed before i thought it may be useful to hear a teenagers view on things. we feel as stuck as you parents do and sometimes so much to the point we get so uncomfortable with the idea of telling parents out of fear. i can promise you its nothing at all against you but at times it feels like we're drowning and we just cant reach for help personally for me out of embarrassment. when i tell people whats wrong i dont want it to be some huge thing and i dont wanna be seen as "silly" which i know is how a lot of teenagers dread feeling and when we see ourselves that nothing is changing believe me it stresses us out a lot more than anyone could ever imagine. it just feels like all you can do is sit in silence and watch your world crumble so please just be easy on them. as a parent of course you wanna be there but sometimes the most useful thing is not being such a "parent" all the time. dont force them to see doctors or to wake up earlier than they can or to tidy when theyre struggling to find the will to live and dont force them to talk to you either, just let them know the option is there...when they feel comfortable they'll talk but its all about letting them willingly talk and take that big step rather than forcing it upon them. another good tip is just be careful what you say, what seems "funny" or even normal to you can be something really dark and upsetting in our minds. our minds tend to overthink and find new meanings for even the most simple of things so just be aware of what doesnt hurt you can really hurt them, we're fragile really. i hope seeing things in a teenagers mind may have helped put things in perspective for you.
Jo 13/01/2017 at 6:24 pm
Hi can anyone please give me some advice? My daughter 14 at the time took a big overdose. (Last year) a social worker become involved. I have 2 younger children. Me and my husband forgot about our last child in need meeting. The other professionals involved have said they want them to be placed on child protection? Me and my husband have never had dealings with s/s till this happened. They are saying because nothing is getting better? But what are we meant to do when our daughter will not attend appointments or take her medication? Please help
Jo 13/01/2017 at 6:17 pm
Hi William I understand what your going threw. My daughter has took 3 overdoses. We are involved with cams and a social worker. You need to raise your concerns with her cams worker and her social worker and stress to the that things are no better. I'm going threw a really tough time. Hope you get some extra help in getting your daughter better
william 29/11/2011 at 10:15 am
My daughter has taken an other overdose this is about the six time she was admited into a hospital for teenagers who have depression and is now released but nothing has changed, She has a social worker a councler and the cams team she just took a overdose last night and then run away the police found her trying to get on the train and took her to hospital. The cams team and social worker were contacted and said just send her home after she comes of the drip, Im so angry as this has been the 3rd time she has taken a overdose and the so called proffesionals keep sending her home and were no further forward if these are warning signs next time maybe to late is there any other help out there as im at my wits end. thank you

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